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Debera Lynn Stanley

Debera Lynn (Stout) Stanley of Harriman TN went to be with her Heavenly Father on April 11, 2019 after a brief but serious illness. She was 64 years old. She was born in Detroit Michigan to parents Shelby (Sperow) Stout and Victor Stout on February 13, 1955 and was a twin to her brother Allen Glen Stout. Debera spent most of her adult life traveling with her first husband during his career in the U.S. Marine Corp. She visited and lived in many exciting & wonderful places including Florida, New Orleans, Virginia, North Carolina, Hawaii, Japan and Scotland. She loved to cook, try new recipes and spend time with her family. She deeply loved all of her family and her extended family in Michigan, Virginia & the Mansfield Ohio area. She shared many wonderful stories and carried many heartwarming memories of those she loved so dearly. She is survived by her daughters Angela (Todd) Carroll of Kingsport TN , Joy Ramsey of Walton Verona KY and Amber (Ronson) Mitchell of Harriman TN. She is also survived by her siblings Allen (Paula) Stout of Warren MI, Donna Luckey of Mio MI, Richard (Mary) Stout of Clinton Twp. MI, Jeffery Stout of Mio MI, Virginia (Thomas) Drake of Fairview MI. and a half-sister Vicky Stout originally from Royal Oak MI. Others left behind loving and missing her are her grandchildren Timothy Carroll of Lebanon VA, Gracie Carroll of Kingsport TN, Carson Mitchell of Oakridge TN and Cylei Mitchell of Harriman TN and great-granddaughter Shelby Glover of Somerset KY. She also leaves behind her best friend of over 40 years Phyllis Cooper and her husband Richard who were steadfast friends and stood by her until the very end. She is survived by many many others who loved her including many dear Nieces & Nephews, Aunts & Uncles and Cousins in Michigan, Ohio and Tennessee. She is God’s child and now rests in his loving hands.

At Debera’s request there will not be any services for her.


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We have so many wonderful memories Debbie, my Dear Cousin. We always had fun every time we got together. Our parents enjoyed each others company, so we got to see each other families a lot. One of my favorite times together was the day of my youngest brother Billys baby shower at your moms house on Rochester Rd. Uncle Roger took your twin brother Allen, Tim & Ricky to a Tigers game. Lisa, Donna, you & I stayed at our house in Clawson. Us girls was always laughing & giggling. We saw out our bedroom window across the street a couple hugging & kissing. I was only 13 & you was 14. We would yell across the road Ring My Chimes teasing them. We would laugh & duck down under the window & hide. We were having such a good time. Your mom, My Aunt Shelby & my mom, your aunt Kitty never knew what we did. We would have all have gotten a good whooping! Well Lisa was ready to tease them again & a face appeared at the window & scared us! We immediately closed all the windows & pulled the shades. Started crawling along the floor. We all needed to get to the bathroom asap. Unbeknown to us Uncle Roger had dropped the boys off after the game. It was Allen who had grabbed his face with his arm behind him to the front of his face. Stretching & pulling it until it was frightening. The boys never stopped laughing at us the rest of the day. Debbie I know your in heaven. Having a Good time with all our loved ones. Just like the Beautiful song I Can Only Imagine. Its well worth living a Christian Life to be with Jesus & family again one day. And it will be everlasting! My prayers, love & thoughts are with all your family & friends at this difficult time. Praise God Heaven Is For Real! Love Pamela Frazier-Karcher

Pamela Frazier-Karcher Apr 26 2019 12:00 AM

Thanks for the memories, as cousins we had a great time. You are GOD'S child, and now you're with your mom and dad, and my mom and dad having a awesome time I bet. Prayers for your family. I Love you very much tell everyone hello

Lisa Frazier Apr 25 2019 12:00 AM

Phyllis Cooper Apr 23 2019 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Debera Stanley

Phyllis Cooper Apr 23 2019 12:00 AM

Brandi Suzette Ruble Apr 17 2019 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Debera Stanley

Brandi Suzette Ruble Apr 17 2019 12:00 AM

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